在很久之前我就听过阿肯的《Be with you》,当时就迷上了它，很明快的音乐，带着一点的说唱风格，主题很明确——I want to be with you.

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Akon - Be With You

I know they wanna come and separate us but they can't do us nothin

Your the one I want and I'm a continue lovin

Cause your considered wifey and I'm considered husband

And I'm a always be there for you

And either way you look at it I ain't goin no where from my muffin

Cause she gonna hold it down, cant no body tell her nothin

You got the kind of love that always make up after fussin

And that's what gets me closer to you

And no one knows

Why I'm into you

Cause you'll never know what its like to walk in our shoes

And no one knows, the things we've been through

Can never measure up to half of what I put you through

That's why we'll break through

And I don't care what they say

I'm gonna be with you

I'm gonna be with you

I wanna be with you

And I don't care what they do

I'm gonna be with you

I'm gonna be with you

I'm gonna be with you

Seems like every day that go by things are gettin harder

Want to be the one that give you the whole enchilada

Cause I know what my baby like only you know that Prada

Louis bag to match with the shoes

All about knowing you I'm into doing things to keep her longer

Stickin together forever, watch it grow stronger

That's the way it has to be, everything proper

Keepin it always true

And no one knows

What I'm into you

Cause you'll never know what its like to walk in our shoes

And no one know, the things we've been through

Can never measure up to half of what I put you through

That's why we'll break through

And I don't care what they say

I'm gonna be with you

I'm gonna be with you

I wanna be with you

And I don't care what they do

I'm gonna be with you

I'm gonna be with you

I'm gonna be with you

You are everything in my life see the joy you bring

And ain't no one I can compare you to

And I know that you will never walk away from me no matter what

And that's why I plan to do the same thing for you

And I want you to know

And I don't care what they say

I'm gonna be with you

I'm gonna be with you

I wanna be with you

And I don't care what they do

I'm gonna be with you

I'm gonna be with you

I'm gonna be with you

  关于芙蓉三变的《非诚勿扰》，同样是很久之前看的，要说音乐和数之前有什么联系，我只记住了，书中女主和男主在不同的时期分别有想和对方在一起的念头……所以，一个be witn you表达了整本书的主题。

——以下是一些摘抄

片段一：

  沈醉低头喝茶水，心里默念，忍，百忍可成钢，忍成不锈钢，水泼盐渍皆无妨。

  话虽如此，沈醉也有几分庆幸。这场婚礼其实只是新娘的回门礼，正式的婚礼已经在男方的家里举办过一次了，这次不过是借着回门再把女方家的亲朋好友招待宴请一回。虽然只是补请酒席，但是由于女方家在这座城市极有分量，一切均按照正式的婚礼规格办理。包下了一座一流的海鲜酒楼，四层，连大厅带包厢，少说也有三四百桌，就算只走一半也不亚于走过一条地狱之路。

　虽然有伴郎伴娘护驾，沈醉依然深深的同情着她的侄子和侄媳，并虔诚的为他们祈祷——但愿她可怜的侄子今天能直着走出去，但愿她可怜的侄媳今天还能看到一个人形的老公。 　　

  好吧，沈醉在心里承认，其实是她不堪各方的殷勤关切，在心理龌龊的兔死狐悲一下而已，真没几分诚心。事实上，也不会有那么凄惨，这年代什么都掺假，敬酒走桌用白水代替白酒已经是公开的秘密，大家心照不宣，一般也不会为难。只是做新人的走断腿，笑酸脸，饿穿胃就一 定免不了了。

　想到这里，沈醉心里平衡了几分，夹了一筷子四喜丸子送进嘴里。

　平时叫做狮子头，婚宴上就变身成必不可少的四喜丸子。不管名字怎么变，这都是沈醉从小到大 吃喜酒的时候最期待的一道菜。沈醉并不挑嘴，但是大部分的酒宴都是卖相比味道好太多，只有这道菜，再怎么难吃也有限，不过今天的四喜丸子毕竟是一流的酒店料理出来的，卖相味道皆一流。沈醉很满足，微微眯了眼。

片段二：

  “恭喜你啊，得到了这个男人。”谢童的声音尖利的像是玻璃划在黑板上，“高兴吗？我等了这个没有心的男人十几年，他看不看我一眼，你一下子就得到了，高兴吗？”

　 腰上苏阑的手用力到让她觉得疼，沈醉不知道谢童刚才说了什么戳痛了他，把手覆在苏阑的手上，无声的安抚。

　“真体贴啊，他就是看上了你这点吗？”谢童注意到沈醉的小动作，笑的讥诮，摇晃了一下靠在墙上。“你和贺音那小丫头还真像，怪不得他这么快就把你弄到手。”

　苏阑的眼神冷的可怕，谢童仿佛没感觉。

　沈醉平淡的看了谢童一眼，伸脚勾来一张椅子，用力把苏阑按坐在上面，然后自己坐在旁边。等着谢童把话说完。

片段三：

   沈醉忽然失笑，“这次，你计划了多少时间？”

   “什么计划？”苏阑皱眉。

   “把我拉回你人生轨道的计划。”

　 苏阑几乎磨牙，英俊的脸有些微的扭曲，逐渐露出本性的沈醉的确让他开始头疼。 　　

   “没有计划。”回答的声音很有几分咬牙切齿的压抑感。

　 沈醉于是更加愉悦了，“那最好了，来丽江找我吧，在不耽误我们彼此工作的前提下，我 们把本末倒置的游戏规则正过来，先来好好认识下对方吧。”